Because lemmy is like a public restroom:

Anyone can, as soon as they feel the need,…

do – I’m trying to route all services through a Tailscale Funnel (which only provides a single domain

Seems like you have some limitation (I really don’t know tailscail funnel) in your setup, and now you expect them to work around it.

HAOS assumes that you would have no need to run any other Docker services other than those that are add-ons or Home Assistant itself.

Yes, HAOS is great when you have one dedicated machine for it, for example a RPi. That’s the whole purpose of HAOS, as far as I understand.

If you already have a zoo full of docker containers, then you want your Home Assistant (without HAOS) in just one more of your own containers.

Good question.

For youtube, there are alternative frontends (piped etc.)

I have no experience with the others.

Security and privacy are priorities

If that is a true priority, then you do not want Android TV. (You would also be hesitant with youtube and netflix).

From your requirements, I am thinking about a “digital signage” device or app.

Don’t know about iPad, but for a cheap Android device there is this free app for example: https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=sk.mimac.slideshow

Bad case of spam

sites that I won’t mention but they are a better fit.

I would be very interested, too. Could you send me a link?

I have a feeling you’re talking about the TTY.

I got the same creepy feeling.

Like someone trying to talk about fork and knife who has never seen fork and knife before :-)

That linked text is very, very wrong.

Better delete your comment about it, from lemmy and from your brain.

It is not “the” problem.

It is thinkable in theory, but it is not a normal thing to happen. Also, you would not just “drown” the defendant, but the court as well, and then they may smell the misuse.

But the defendant still has to put the funds up in the first place? It’s a huge gamble

Good point. Actually it isn’t a huge gamble in Germany, other than in Usa (which is again the extremely worst example).

Costs of legal defense are moderate. There is a public tariff for lawyer costs and for court fees. So the only areas where you even have a chance to spend huge amounts are finding or creating evidence (private investigators etc), or hiring too many lawyers.

Humans slow down over time. Computers slow down over time.

Since we don’t know any more details, I put my $.02 on a cheap plastic router that wants to get rebooted sometimes.

which is quite overkill for what is needed here.

Not sure what that means, but if you only need samba shares: samba supports many different methods of user auth.

I know 4g is not fast, but I would like to use it

There was a time when people used to have 2400 bits per second from home (for the youngsters: that is 0.0003M). So if you are doing it for fun, why not.

I don’t even want the list. I’m just asking if it has them all — or less than all :-)

So it has got TLS. Nice.

But what about all the other security features that are required of a mail server today?

I wouldn’t dare to charge that old battery up. Some of them can start a fire.

I have a lot to learn about OPSEC and cybersecurity.

Or, you could address that paranoia problem directly.

For storage, I’m using a single Samsung Evo 870 with 2TB (backups will be done anyway, no need for RAID). In order to do this, I setup a Debian 12 container, installed Cockpit and the tools needed to share via SMB.

I wonder who owns the storage harddisk: the proxmox host or the Debian VM?

Maybe that’s worth another try in your test setup: pass this physical device to the Debian VM, in order to eliminate possible losses from the virtualization.

https://pve.proxmox.com/wiki/Passthrough_Physical_Disk_to_Virtual_Machine_(VM)

ZFS compression is costing some CPU power for sure. How many cores/threads does your CPU have?

And if it is mostly video files: they are already compressed heavily, so you don’t gain anything with another layer of compression.